Thursday, April 29, 2010

Sigh


This is my I'm-stressed-out-and-need-a-fucking-cupcake-now! cupcake (aka the Banana Banana cupcake from Sugar Bliss).

I got some some not great, but not terrible, but definitely life-changing/things are going to be very difficult for the next couple of years news yesterday.  It's not the worse news ever (no one died), but it's really not the right time for it to happen. It will involve a major restructuring of my time, finances and job situation... and will definitely cause an insane amount of stress.  I don't want to/shouldn't go into the details yet, as it's not official yet... if everything goes according to the tentative plans, it should be official within the next couple of weeks. I'm hoping to have some more concrete plans (and less stress/more acceptance) by that time. Unfortunately, I have no control over the way this is going to play out (which is also extremely stressful - I'm a planner! I must have control!). 

[No, I'm not pregnant.  That would require more than one cupcake... probably close to a dozen.]

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BTW - I'm still working on the NYC post (I'm so ready to go back!!). I'm having some issues with flickr (some photos uploaded twice & others disappeared a few days after I added them). Once I have that all sorted out, I'll finish the post. And yes, the flickr issues are also stressing me out - really, it's a very small thing, but I'm slightly on edge at the moment. Arg!

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

I *heart* NY!


Times Square, which was just a few blocks from our hotel
(click to embiggen - the small version doesn't do it justice!)

We're back from NYC... we had the most amazing time! OMG, I fell in love with that city - actually, we both did. We're ready to pack our bags and move there! Of course, it's Manhattan that we really fell hard for (oh, Midtown, how I love thee) - aka the place we couldn't afford to live. We did a crazy amount of stuff (and still had a ridiculously long list of things that we didn't have time to do), took a disgusting amount of photos (close to 1,000!), and got very little sleep (maybe 4-5 hours per night). Once I get myself together (and recover from my NYC withdrawal/lack of sleep), I'll write all about the awesomeness and post some (a lot) of photos!

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

The good, the bad, and the weird

The weird: On my way home from school tonight I saw/heard a man pick up a prostitute. It's not the first time I've seen that happen, but it was the first time I was close enough to actually hear part of the conversation (I was passing by them). It was all very strange/fascinating/unsettling.

The bad: I have a cold! Since I started my awesome vitamin & Umcka routine last year, I've only been sick once... of course, cold #2 just had to show up the day before we leave for M's b-day/vacation. Add that cold to Aunt Flo (who decided to show up late)... well, I'm not a happy camper.

The good:
1. Another blogger meet-up! I had the pleasure of hanging out with Kendra when she was here for a conference. We talked, we laughed, and we drank too many delicious pomegranate martinis (well, I did - I was wasted by the time we left. Yes, I only had two, but they were very strong & I don't have a gallbladder!). :)

2. NEW YORK!!! We're leaving early in the morning... which means I need to get my ass to bed right now! Yippee!!! :)

Monday, April 05, 2010

Texas

Warning: very long & picture-heavy post ahead...

On Friday I mentioned on fb that I had spent the week catching up on everything from the previous week (when I was in TX) and I was just then beginning to catch up on everything from last week I had neglected in order to do everything from the previous week. Yes, it has been one of those weeks. Actually, March was one of those types of months. This month isn't shaping up to be much better (in terms of time crunches), but at least the main cause of the craziness will be a pleasure trip - one that I have been looking forward to for months (only nine days until we leave for NY!). Now for Texas...

The conference took place at one of those la-di-da overpriced spa resorts outside of Austin. The conference info had said it was minutes from downtown Austin - um, yeah, that would be 40 minutes outside of Austin (in the middle of nowhere). The resort was pretty and had a lot of activities available, but they were mostly aimed toward families. It's not really the best place to be if you're alone - unless you like attending face-painting workshops with a bunch of random kids. :)

For me, the best things about the resort were the rooms (they were so spacious & the beds were incredibly comfortable),
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the nature trails (I did the one along the Colorado River), and
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the fact that there were flowers blooming everywhere! It was in the 30s when I left Chicago, so this was a very big deal. :)
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The pools were also awesome, but I decided to spend most of my free time exploring Austin, rather than hanging out at the resort.
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The conference? Eh, it was okay. I was able to meet a big name education guy (and attend a session with him that was limited to 20 attendees), which was cool because I've been studying and teaching his research for years. Other than him... let's just say that the rest of the sessions were a bit painful.

I was able to spend most of Thursday in Austin (after a $50 cab ride!). I spent part of the morning wandering around 6th Street and eventually decided to join an organized tour. I'm not a big fan of Duck Tours (I did one in Boston years ago), but it really was the best way to see the entire city.
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6th Street:
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The Capitol (yes, I know the photos are crooked - for some reason the tour bus just zoomed by it, so I didn't have the best vantage point):
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Lake Austin (which isn't really a lake) & the very expensive properties surrounding it:
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Later that night I met up with Awesome Austin Blogger (she doesn't name her location on her blog, so I won't out her - she is one of those bloggers who has been around forever & someone I've wanted to meet for years!) for drinks at The Driskill (such an awesome place!).
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We eventually ended up at Hey Cupcake, where I fell in love with the coolest Airstream trailer ever... and the cupcakes. Oh, the cupcakes. They were so delicious!
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Awesome Austin Blogger was indeed awesome. We made jokes, caught up on some blogger gossip, and had a great conversation about relationships. As with my other blogger meet-ups, it was like I already knew her - we just picked up on a conversation that had been happening online for years. I had such a fantastic time and I'm so glad I finally had the opportunity to meet her! :)

Although I did have a lot of fun in Austin, there were so many things about Texas that really bothered me. Yes, I know it's an uber-conservative state, but I've always heard that Austin is actually quite liberal. It was noticeably less conservative than where I was staying (and that wasn't even an hour outside of the city), but it still wasn't the type of liberal I'm used to (the racial stratification... wow. There are definitely issues in Chicago, but it's nothing like it is there.)... I guess they mean that it's liberal for Texas. I was also a little perplexed about the use of the word liberal down there. There were definitely some actual liberals (like AAB), but there were also quite a few people who identified as liberal, but who said they voted for Bush because "he was the lesser of two evils." I had a conversation with a guy (from Austin) who said his beliefs most closely align with liberals, but he hates Obama and thinks that he's not even qualified to be in office (as in he's not an American citizen).

My biggest issue was with the blatant lies/misconceptions I heard (I probably shouldn't have watched the news). My favorite actually came up three times (during the course of three days!) - during a conversation with cab driver, during a presentation about Texas at the resort, and during the Duck Tour. Apparently, Texas is the only state that has permission to fly its state flag at the same height at the US flag. This is because TX is still classified as an independent nation. Texas can also choose to secede from the US at any time and go back to being on its own (the cab driver even said there are several groups currently "gathering its strength to make it happen"). WTF?!? Seriously?? Is this what they're teaching in schools there? Is it not a requirement to read/discuss the US Flag Code? NO, Texas does not have special flag privileges - hell, even Wikipedia mentions how that is an urban legend. Also, independent nation? Yes, back in the 1800s... I'm sorry you hate Obama, but you really are a part of the United States (although I'm sure many people would be happy to see you leave). Ugh!

It was nice to get out of the cold and to see a new place (and meet AAB!), but three days in Texas was definitely enough. Chicago isn't perfect, but I was quite glad to return home. :)

*full photoset here